We had talked about our future, marriage possibly, having a child.up until the break-up which was completely out of the blue for me. Brought my coffee every morning sent me beautiful texts. Then one day without saying anything he left. HerNorm is a community-supported website. I am sorry to her about your situation, and I get that you may feel like you want to give up on this love thing as well. Maybe he wanted to start a family with you, but then his ex appeared in the picture and that changed all his plans. Over a week ago he told me he does not want to have any communication with me again. Weve only checked each others Facebook status, comments. (Until now. I suggest you start a new relationship with someone who is near you and who you can communicate with you. Think of yourself as G.I. The number #1 factor that causes men to behave this way is actually relatively easy to change with a few subtle things you can say to him. I dont know if he broke up with me because of all the fighting or for the new girl. I have had 2 hire attys and am running out of money fast! He said he wants to be my friend and see me but I feel that I just cant be his friend, I just love him too much and it would kill me to just be friends. I was angry he said that. We can always pick up like we havent been through life, people, situations separate. I slept at his house every night except when his boys were there. They keep telling me to file already. Generally, a man who is in a relationship for the first time will definitely have many dreams about his woman. Thats where we did all our talking because he was so far away and I dont have a phone right now. He may not have seen this at first. He always said hes a private person I show some people our photo together. I deserve better. But he said Im sick of hearing you cry about your dad. Have never met anyone like him. In other words, Hes telling ME hes a narcissist! THEN 2 WEEKS AGO I FOUND OUT HE ASKED ANOTHER WOMAN FOR HER PHONE NUMBER WHEN OUR OTHER FRIEND WENT TO THE BATHROOM- SO THE SNEAKINESS OF WAITING FOR THE FRIEND TO LEAVE SHOWS ME OF HIS INTENTIONSTHAT HE IS OUT THERE LOOKING AROUND FOR WHAT? Its been a while and I dont know if you guys got back together but Ive done a lot of research on break ups and relationships. Since then, he has contacted me several times. But if he said he loves you then you know that theres a good chance hes eventually going to be back. Believe it or not, men arent all logic or sex, and they do have strong emotions. If he loves you then hes not going to slam the door and forget all about you. Please help me. So, remember that actions speak louder than words, and it will take more than just promises to get you back. He left me and our 3 young kids again a month ago when he came into some money (despite the fact I was having a miscarriage) and disappeared to family down the country to show off doing his Mr wonderful routine . Neither is there no longer a desire for revenge. I shouldnt have to be held responsible for his actions, so I ended the conversation by hanging up on her. For some reason he wont let me go. And I did not beg him to come back to me or being a desperate annoying dumpee. He started acting a bit distant. A few years back I dated a guy for about 8 months. I disagreed & we spoke a bit about it & mid conversation he said he had to go & well speak later. Crying, depressed and unable to get out of bed at times. I am also very happy for you and your daughter, unfortunately, my son willl never be there. So I called her and flipped out at her while he was with her and his friends. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. He understood why I flipped out though. I doubt that he will ever return. He said maybe he needs to see other ppl to realize he wants to be with me or just needs space. I know this from personal experience, my research, and from other people I work with. My wife being my wife saw this and thought there was no way out and then she felt me filed for a divorce and wanted to take all i had left. His wife works for the same company, as a prison guard, the same as him, although not based in the same court. He hasnt contacted me since and its the longest weve not been in contact since knowing him (though only four days). If you arent already, I would suggest seeing a therapist to help with some of the emotional trauma you likely endured. When he wanted slept together etc me thinking he wanted to reconcile . He has told you what he wants Paula. I cry myself to sleep every night and at random times when Im alone. If hes available and has been a good friend all this time, I would consider promoting him from the friend zone. Either way, you will 3. I want to stop talking to him because we dont communicate enough and he doesnt want to commit to me and everything else. My Ex found out of two horrific tragedies, and one upsetting situation that I recently suffered. Or California in the pacific .. Omg so many options and you are crying over a loser. Ever since then i have been so happy and couldnt believe it would happen. i had move on, is being 8 months now. He dumped you for someone else. Anon, I know how you feel because I experienced a similar scenario with my Ex. Is he from India. He also has his daughters bikes here and some tools and a few items of clothing. Hi Paula I would keep back just a little to see if he has truly changed. Its a good idea to remember that you arent necessarily the one to blame; perhaps you both could have done something different in your relationship, or maybe you were in a situation where you werent growing and changing. If he is not mature enough to be ready for the type of relationship you want equal partner you will always feel like a failure. Is it easy? I showed up at his house the next day only to find out he wasnt even at home the night before, he had gone to stay at his friends house in another town the day before he was supposed to come and see me. Your emotional growth relies on how well you healed from the previous relationships. I probably will be scared to ever date in the future bc i was lied to so bad. You as a woman can never change a man, but instead can open his eyes to a whole new reality that maybe he doesnt want to face like the reality of living without you. He left me without telling anything, Just completely blocked me out of his life 3 days after telling he would like to marry me. He asked me to go home with him and I said no. I gave back and shocked him for life. He seems genuine. If he does come back he better have a ring and a very good explanation and an apology. Can I say he loves me, Yes or least least most of our journey together, it was pleasant and i feel his love and care. When I tried to contact him on Facebook messager, he ignoring me and dont want talk to me at all. Now, he reappears and wants to get back together. Obviously I trusted this man as I started a relationship which originally I didnt want due to him still being legally married. I asked did u ever love me. I love that man no matter who he thinks he is. The bottom line is that he still has strong feelings for you, and rather than trying to move on with his life, he just cant imagine a world without you in it. Courtesy of Anne Jarret. It isnt begging for him back just explaining that I understand why he has done it and that I am changing things already The problem is that HE kept popping in and out of my life. Because thats the reason I decided to get help in the first place: to control my emotions. I just want help. For example, I have to erase him like he did me. If this is your first time on my blog, it might benefit you to spend some time looking around under the Healing category. Dont let him drag you down. 2 years in we were engaged, and 4 years in he seemed to change his mind. I am not getting over this as quickly as I would like but remain hopeful. he might miss me . One day I snuck in his phone and saw text between him and another woman. They hate drama and insecurities.. Just relax and enjoy. That means he cares neither for what is best for you OR THE OTHER GUY!!!!! On top of that, it boosts your energy so that you feel more motivated to do things that benefit you! If your boyfriend broke up with you and you didnt want him to leave, it can be heartbreaking to stay in love while he has moved on. The Narc is fake. Shell shocked to say the least. Recently he told me not to text or email himthat he would explain soon. Thats why the day he broke up with me seem so serious. Which open up a door so he wanted to break up because he said he dont want to bring her up in our relationship which hes in counseling now. He also helped me with success spell, I have been living happily with my lover now and will be getting married soon. In short, he drinks excessively and doesnt have money of his own for a future. This process may take 2 years or more. 2012, oct He was acting nice, saying I love you. So he messed up yhen leaves me and weeks later hes approaching women and handing out numbers and doing God only knows what else ? Just as Metodo Acamu said it happened. He replied and we saw each other that day. Either way, its a win/win situation. I do not think for a moment that all men are like this, but this one has had ample years to show me exactly who he is capable of being. It was really intense. He does want to focus on getting ahead, has financial issues due to child support & an ex who ran up hits credit cards.. How long do you wait for someone? I heard he went to the concert pretty early but I was not there he left. He said there is no hope of us getting back together but in my heart I do not believe this. Ive talked to him 3 times since we broke up and Im trying not to be emotional and needy and act desperate but its hard he was my other half and me being in this apartment makes me think of him. If yes and he cannot give the same, youre better off without him. Thought about having a friend drop the stuff off at his house. You say guy number 2 makes you fell wanted. Tells lies. Im trying hard to do everything right but my question to you is I still love him I still care it breaks my heart he is with another and did not choose me . Regardless of when my bf was drunk or sober he constantly told me that. Maybe anything. Run. On Labor Day he told me he had met someone (who reminds him of his first wife, HS sweetheart who cheated during their marriage)and wanted to see where it goes. Hope this helps , Hello, yes this helps a lot! Dont let him make you go crazy. He is stressed, I see, I hurted him. One of the most powerful ones is the No Contact Rule. He decided to try and fix things with his wife because of the kids while he was still texting me holding on to me by a thread. Its natural for guys to want some space, itll give him time to have a think about your relationship the ability to step back for a day or two and review it from a different angle. Its crazy his passport his bank cards he took nothing which is why i assumed he didnt plan on leaving but cheated and then stayed gone . After a few weeks of the break-up he wrote me a message at 5 am after a party. He is baffled as well, and says he will reach out to him and get back to me.i just want to know hes ok. I know of what I speak. Now I was really on edge. Respect yourself, respect what the two of you have had. Worse of all, he asked me NOT to answer the phone if someone were to call or text, which is a red flag. Our relationship was great and we had so much fun together. There hasnt been a time we leave unspoken for more than 2 days even after a big quarrel but that was many months ago. In the early stages my ex narc. I got really mad cause it was 5 days after we broke up, after being in a relationship for 4 years. Here is his contact if you need his help. We are watching a movie and of course she started to get grabby and tried having sex with me. If youve blocked him on social media or on your phone, youll be unable to reach out to him; however, that wont stop him from trying to get in touch with you. Starting over again comes with all sorts of risks. Its been 3 weeksI havent heard from him. I have been divorce for two years now, i didnt want it i tryed everything to stop it but he would not. I dont believe in the love spell doctors, but I believe in God. He brought up marriage, wanted to start a family and had the audacity to tell me that he loves me!!! Well, I was in a relationship with my ex for about nine to ten months. Try to make your man see that the ex is just a trouble maker.if your man can not see this, the 2 of them are really jerks. He said. for any kind of relationship help reach out to him now on the internet. Wow when i type it it sounds even crazier but thats my story. He was cold and short tempered. I definitely think youre overthinking the whole situation. If not, maybe he wants to make sure he has not made a mistake before he commits as he does not have that much experience. Hello, I am in a bit of a complicated/confusing situation currently and I need some advice on it, mainly because its the first time I am experiencing this, and I would like some insight (preferably from a guy if possible) I dont want to believe in a better future without him, I dont wanna nobody else, I just want one person. com))) restored my relationship, my boyfriend came back to me, i took him back and I am now settled with my him by the magic power of Mr Robinson buckler spell. The guy isn't completely to blame in this scenario. 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